Wednesday, August 11, 2010

The Nightingale Sang in Barkley Square

There are days when magic happens at Wascana and Wednesday past was one of them. Isabel eagerly awaited a visit from her longtime friends Don & Marion of Aber-Calgary whom she had not seen in nearly two years. Much water has passed under the bridge since the last visit of these old friends. Transition has happened in each of their lives as well as the lives of other close friends. Isabel & Rufus III were outside at the west doors of Wascana to greet Marion & Don as they rolled in with family members.
Late the day before, the Lysters, and Isabel had learned that Larry & Marj Middleton would once again be the featured entertainment at the Veterans' Happy Hour one floor above Mum's unit on Wednesday afternoon. Our parade of wheelchairs and walkers rolled in 40 minutes before Happy Hour began to ensure we found good seats. We were greeted by a visiting Veteran who was celebrating his 87th birthday and whom has come to help host this Happy Hour for nearly 30 years. The Women's Auxiliary to a Regina Legion (some whom have also been volunteering for more than 25 years) quickly found us chairs and offered drinks and snacks.

As Don said "Larry can make that sax talk". Marj's keyboard skills complemented the sax for an hour of easy dance music. Larry invited the crowd of 100 to identify songs. Don & Isabel were quick to call out the World War II tune: The Nightingale Sang in Barkley Square after just a few bars. We may not have been under the enchantment of nightingales in wartime London, but we were amid the magic of dance music stirring tired feet and old memories of many veterans and their spouses. Hands clasped, feet tapped, and we could all imagine summer evenings 70 years ago. As the hour was coming to a close, Marion & Don pushed away their walkers to invite their daughters to dance. Isabel's applause for this surprise performance came through the pounding of her wooden spoon on her wheelchair table.

We are grateful for longtime friends with courage and determination; younger friends with the gift of music who share it so willingly in longterm care facilities in Balcarres and Regina; and moments of magic in a longterm care facility where lives continue to find meaning through the gifts of staff and volunteers.

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