Thursday, August 30, 2007
The West Nile Ride
Monday, August 27, 2007
Monday evening update
Friday, August 24, 2007
The West Nile Road
Dear Family and Friends
It is two weeks today since Mum was admitted to hospital.
We are writing to update you on her condition.
Her health was stable enough on Thursday to have surgery for a tracheostomy. Her ICU Doctor encouraged this procedure to reduce the chance of infection and increase her comfort as she requires a respirator to breathe. She is awaiting surgery for a tube into her stomach for feeding purposes. Both these procedures are reversible when she gains strength to breathe and swallow on her own. We hope that this will be possible in the near future. At this time, the extent of the permanent neurological damage to her respiratory system is unknown. Mum will remain in ICU while she stablizes from Thursday's surgery.
We want to keep you up-to-date as much as possible. Mum is hanging in -- determined, couragous, and working so hard at the tasks that we and the supurb medical staff ask her to do to help increase her movement and communication.
Mum -- and all of us -- continue to be sustained by your many greetings of support. Mum had her glasses on Thursday and was able to appreciate your beautiful cards as we held them for her to see.
Thank you all again for your many many messages, and for holding us all in your care these last two weeks.
We will likely not update the blog again until early next week unless there is a change in Mum's condition. However, each day we will continue to read to Mum and tell her about your care.
Janet, Nancy, and Catherine
Thursday, August 23, 2007
Hanging In and Hanging Out
HANGING IN: We are all hanging in -- especially Mum whose indomitable spirit shines through during these hard days. Mum is so brave and full of determination. Tuesday was a big day -- emotionally and physically as my sisters and I shared your greetings, watched her eye and facial responses to the questions of medical staff and us, and worked with her to do gentle physio movements. She is understanding our communication and yours, and much of what is going on around her. She has lots of alert times and lots of sleepy times.
HANGING OUT: Rick and I have been at the ICU many hours since noon on Tuesday, and will be there until noon on Thursday. We have hung out a lot in the Visitors' Room where one of the supportive and unexpected bonuses of our hours in the ICU has been hanging out with other families whose loved ones are exhibiting symptoms similar to Mum, but who are still waiting for test results to confirm West Nile. We exchange symptoms and internet sites, discuss medical care, and Saskatchewan locales. My parents always made friends while in the hospital. It feels as if we are keeping up the tradition as we exchange phone numbers and e-mail addresses to keep in touch about the outcome of this vicious virus.
Again -- we are so appreciative of your e-mails, cards and faxes and we read them all to Mum several times. Stories of your work days in various places, canning peaches, hours of quilting, harvest yields, travel, summer holidays, new school supplies, and what's happening at the Abernethy Coop -- and so much more -- help the time go more quickly and provide needed stimulation for Mum.
Mary and Josh are creating a big purple binder covered with stickers to hold all the messages. I suggested to them that a binder with a good collection of cat, dog, flower, and Spiderman stickers would be just what we need to hold your words of strength, prayer and community for Mum.
We ask if you are sending cards to address them to: Box 190, Abernethy, SK S0A 0A0 rather than the hospital. And if any of you can send some sunshiny dry days to the Canadian prairies, please do that, too!
Thank you!
Catherine
Monday, August 20, 2007
A Room with a View
It is noon on Monday.
Mum continues to be intensive care with 1-on-1 nursing care. She has some periods where she intently focusses her listening. We know that she is hearing much of what goes on around her so we continue to reassure her and read your many messages.
Her condition continues to be very critical, and we continue to live one day at a time. Yesterday, Mum was moved to "a room with a view" so she has a larger room and a big window. We know that this is very important so that she can be aware of day and night. Now if that sun would come out and brighten up three-day-sodden-Saskatchewan, we would all be pleased. Harvest has ground to a halt with heavy rain during each of the last three days.
We continue to be moved by the outpouring of phone calls and e-mails and cards. We know that Mum has a vast community, but we had no idea of her influence. As a family, we are sustained by your kind notes and your story-telling of your days, and your experiences of how Mum has influenced your lives as a friend, cousin, aunt, teacher, and community volunteer. Reading your words helps these long days. Some of you are writing every day; some of you have written once or twice. Each type of message is so important to us.
Some of you want to send faxes. You can do so to Nancy and Bill's at: 306-333-4833. There is no need to do a cover page as the fax will come to the Garratt seed plant.
Some of you have asked about sending flowers or visiting Mum. Intensive Care is an acute care ward that has many people with a variety of critical illnesses. The hospital does not allow flowers nor does it allow visitors other than immediate family. Your prayers and messages are what are important now.
We ask for your continued prayers for courage and peace-of-mind for Mum; for strength and courage for us all, and for wisdom and compassion for the medical staff who are treating her.
Thank you again,
Catherine
Saturday, August 18, 2007
Saturday Evening
It is late Saturday evening and this is a short note. We are so grateful for the many many messages that continue to flow in and sustain Mum and all of us as we support her.
Mum is having more alert periods of listening so we read many notes to her today. We love sharing your stories of harvest, family activities, work and leisure.
Her situation continues to be very very serious, and we value your support is helping her and us one day at a time. Please keep your greetings coming. It may not be possible for us to post a message each day, however,we will update the weblog as we know more.
We ask for your continued prayers that Mum might know how she is held and loved in community as she continues to find the strength to heal.
Thank you again,
Catherine
Friday, August 17, 2007
Friday evening Update
Janet, Nancy and I met today with the Doctor (known as an Intensivist) in the Intensive Care Unit who has been co-ordinating Mum's care since Monday. This care includes consultation with other specialists including neurologists.
Mum has a severe meningitis. The cause has not been identified. She is being treated with several drugs to cover a variety of possibilities of infection. She continues to be in a coma. Her condition continues to be very critical, however, the Doctor says Mum is showing slight improvement.
We deeply appreciate the flood of e-mails and phone calls that have come our way from across North America, Scotland, England and Australia. We are telling Mum about each one of them.
The medical team has told us that the best way we can support Mum's healing is to provide stimulation through conversation, music, and reading to her.
Many of you have asked how YOU can be supportive. We welcome your notes and cards. Please consider writing a short note or letter about your activities (how harvest is going, what flowers are in your garden, what your families or pets are doing, your summer holidays, what you can see from your window). Descriptive items such as these can help Mum think about you and what you are doing as these days pass. Humorous incidents are welcome.
You can either e-mail them to me at: catherine.barnsley@usask.ca
or send them by Post to:
Box 190
Abernethy, SK
S0A 0A0
We will read them with Mum as often as we can. We have had a variety of signs that she is hearing us when we speak.
Thanks for all your love and care and prayers. The support means so much to us.
Catherine